WHAT IS LOVE? WHO IS THE ONE-SOULMATE. FALLING IN LOVE? Happy V-Day!

HAPPY 7th ANNIVERSARY TO LILY’S LIP SERVICE!

God V-Day is an emotionally loaded day, isn’t it??! It’s a LOVE-hate relationship for me. Love is in the air, yet pressure abounds. Self-imposed pressure, partner pressure, friend, and family pressure. What do we want to offer? What do we want to GIVE, do we even WANT to give something to anyone, what will we receive, if anything? Some hate it, some love it, some need it, others brush it off. And it allllll makes sense. I love it because I first taught myself how to squirt on V-Day (is this considered the ultimate self-care?). Then one year later on V-Day 2017 I started this Lily’s Lip Service blog.

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August 25, 2020

JUST BANGIN’ IT OUT OVER HERE

I just spent the past hour debating on whether or not I could finalize this post ….. you, know, like, BANG IT OUT. I finally decided, yes, indeed, I can and will bang it out. Then I may bang it out with myself too!

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June 15, 2017June 15, 2017

DO IT. EVEN WHEN YOU DON’T FEEEEEEEEL LIKE IT.

There can be times when we don’t feeeeeeel like having sex. There are times when your partner doesn’t feeeeeeel like having sex. It’s not anyone else’s job to make sure you are fully, sexually satisfied. It’s your job, and yours alone.

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April 13, 2017

PREACHIN’ IT!

I am single. I am childless. I am proud of it (finally).

Puuleeeaaase don’t pretend to condescendingly think I’m “talking myself into” this. I’m not. I’ve explored all options. I’ve explored the possibility that I’m sabotaging myself or tricking myself into believing this. I’ve explored that maybe I’m “unlucky in love” or I’m “unlucky” in getting pregnant. Nope, I don’t think so. I’m making the single, childless choices, consciously. Of course, I admit to myself and I know I haven’t made the best choices in men in the past. Ya, I could use some therapy.

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