Lily Reveals: is it real or is it fantasy?

Nothing Lily says is to be construed as anything other than real, made-up, fantasy, from a dream…or any combo of these. If you think it’s about you – it probably is (not really).

Why a XXX sex blog?

One may ask, “why start a blog, how does that come about”. I’m sure there must be thousands of answers to that question since there’s billions of blogs but here’s mine: through the enthusiasm and encouragement of my closest friends. They’ve been my guinea pigs for 20 years and then a few years ago the idea of me blogging was first planted in my mind. Honestly – it wasn’t MY original thought for ME to have a blog or an advice column or whatever WE decide to make this. But, people come to me and ask me my opinion, or confide in me, and they have for years. Then the name was suggested by a friend, “Lily’s Lip Service”. I’ve had a lot of contemplation time and now fast forward and it’s happening. I set a date and goal: V-Day 2017, Lily’s Lip Service’s Coming Out!!! I set the date last October or November. Seemed kinda far away at that time. Ya, right. HERE WE ARE! Woot!

Valentine’s Day: a FRESH perspective.

Why V-Day? Because V-day reintroduced itself to me last year with a fresh perspective.

If you’re single… it can sort of be a “difficult” day considering its primary focus is coupledom. Last year I decided to turn it into V-day -or- Vag Day I now like to call it. The day to focus on my vagina. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t ignore my vagina. Not at all. But I knew I could take it to a new level and that’s exactly what I did! I had an excellent day and at the end, stepped up my game, and taught myself how to SQUIRT. Yep! Not only is V-Day now Vag Day for me – it’s also my Squirt Day!

Squirting: yes or no? I recommend it for every woman.

Have you squirted? Do you even believe it’s a “thing” women can do?

I decided to explore. I believed in it but also knew it was quite illusory. I’d squirted but it had happened randomly and when I tried to recreate the circumstances , I wasn’t successful. Then I figured I needed a partner – someone to massage my G-spot for me because I was aware the G-spot was a necessary element in the equation. But it’s tough to guide a partner when you don’t even know yourself what’s supposed to be happening. So, after toying w/the idea, and after treating myself to some porn and a few orgasms, I hopped on Amazon and Googled (drum roll please) “female ejaculation”. Yep, the 90’s way of saying “squirting”.

Some books came up, of course. The first book I downloaded was $5 and super short – like 35 pages. I was feeling confident I didn’t need a super in-depth lesson so 35 pages seemed appropriate. Ya, I got this – easy.

I breezed through that book. Understood everything, could have written it. But it didn’t bring me to the squirting climax. It didn’t give me the final piece to the puzzle I was looking for. Then I figured out why. It was written by a man. H-I-L-A-R-I-O-U-S. Of course, he couldn’t write about that final piece – he didn’t know it personally either. That’s fine – I give him credit for writing the book and being knowledgeable on the subject. On the other hand, I thought, huh, he’s got some balls trying to describe this very personal, female experience. But, no need for too much thought on that right now.

I quickly moved on as I was determined to find what I was looking for and get to my end-game. I researched further and came across the book, quoted within a story, that changed my life forever. POW!! Hence: One Year Anniversary of Squirting. Perfect V-Day Blog Coming Out day!

Subjects: go ahead – AsK IT, say it!

No subject is off-limits here. Unless, of course, it’s something illegal and absolutely disgusting like child porn. That’s never ok. You get my drift – I’m open and able to discuss a wide variety of topics. Very little ruffles my feathers or makes me blush. But I admit I have some limitations. For instance – my married friend w/2 kids asked me how she could incorporate more sex into her marriage. My response: get the kids OUT OF YOUR BED. Easier said than done, right? Hey, I’m single – don’t have kids, not married. Probably not the best source for advice on that subject. But if you’d like to email me ([email protected]) any question – I will be happy to respond. In fact, if you ask my friends they will say, I most always have a response! It just might not be the RIGHT response (i.e. not what you want to hear).

Lily’s Lip Service is just that – a SERVICE for you (I’m very good at servicing). Take advantage! Maybe Lily really will make you giggly and blush and wanna squirt your brains out. I highly recommend that last one – DO THAT. Just be sure to have your towel ready!

XoXoX, and until next time,

Lily

p.s. Especially BIG kisses and hugs to all my friends and lovers. It’s you that have made this allllll possible. Cheers bitches!